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His name was Howard. He was only four\u2014far too small for a coffin, far too young for a goodbye like that.<\/p>\n

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They told me it was a sudden infection. Fast. Unpredictable. The kind no one could stop in time.<\/p>\n

All I knew was that my child was gone.<\/p>\n

I remember signing papers through tears. A nurse gently placed a hand on my shoulder and told me not to look too long\u2014that it was better to remember him as he had been.<\/p>\n

So I listened.<\/p>\n

I was shattered. The hospital was in chaos that night\u2014a storm had knocked out parts of the system, and everything was being handled manually. People relied on wristbands, charts, and trust.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t know then how dangerous that was.<\/p>\n

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Howard had a birthmark just below his left ear.<\/p>\n

I never forgot that.<\/p>\n

Years later, I moved away and started over in a small town. I worked at a caf\u00e9 where no one knew my story. I made coffee, wiped counters, and learned how to keep going\u2014even if I never called it healing.<\/p>\n

But some memories never fade.<\/p>\n

Especially that birthmark. Small, oval, uneven.<\/p>\n

I used to kiss it every night before bed.<\/p>\n

I hadn\u2019t let myself think about it in years.<\/p>\n

Until one day\u2026 I saw it again.<\/p>\n

It was a busy shift when a young man stepped up to the counter.<\/p>\n

\u201cBlack coffee,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

He looked about nineteen or twenty. Nothing unusual\u2014until he tilted his head slightly.<\/strong><\/h1>\n

And I saw it.<\/p>\n

The same mark.<\/p>\n

Same place. Same shape.<\/p>\n

For a moment, I couldn\u2019t breathe.<\/p>\n

I told myself it was coincidence. Birthmarks happen. Grief makes patterns where there are none.<\/p>\n

Still, my hands trembled as I made his drink.<\/p>\n

When I handed it to him, our fingers brushed\u2014and everything around me felt distant.<\/p>\n

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